Self-checkout. It was supposed to be easy. It’s not.  I clicked on the picture of zucchini but I wanted cucumber. Oh no, I have a bottle of wine. Now I have to wait for an employee to verify that my gray hairs are old enough. Hmmm, it says to place my item in the bagging … Continue reading Is it self-service or self-serving?

Purposefully human. It’s a powerful idea and one we need to increasingly live out. But what does it mean exactly? Here’s my take.  Doing anything purposefully means doing it in a way that shows determination or resolve. It’s being intentional.  But why the need to be intentionally—or purposefully—human? Well, we live in a world that … Continue reading Purposefully Human?

A man fell. No one cared. People passed by without a look, not even a slight pause. Until… one man stopped. He noticed. He helped. He listened. He offered some water. He ensured there was no serious injury. He helped make better out of bad. Compassion. Seeing the suffering of others and desiring to help. … Continue reading Compassion is power … your power.

“And now we welcome the new year. Full of things that have never been.” -Rainer Maria Rilke What has never been? What a thought. It’s fraught with possibility. It’s energized with hope. It is supremely optimistic.  Oddly, this is what a new year does. I say oddly because New Year’s Day is, after all, just … Continue reading The best question for a new year.

“Humanity is not defined by the evil done by a few. It is defined by the goodness done by the majority.” –Chris Anderson Chris Anderson’s book, Infectious Generosity, is a worthy read. To begin, he poses a key question that weaves throughout the book: “Am I (are you) a net giver or a net taker?” … Continue reading BOOK REVIEW: Infectious Generosity by Chris Anderson

The last week of the year is here. I like the last week because it is quieter. The bustle of the holidays is over, schools are out, and business is half asleep.  It’s a good time to get some rest and reflect back on lessons learned and blessings received. It’s a good time to envision … Continue reading The last week

Helpful advice as we move into the cold times… “One kind word can warm three winter months.” -Japanese Proverb Have a merry happy Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Winter Solstice, whatever, just be kind. ==> If you want to know when new posts are published, CLICK HERE to subscribe.

“Courtesies [the showing of politeness in one's attitude and behavior toward others] of a small and trivial character are the ones which strike deepest in the grateful and appreciating heart.” -Henry Clay Politeness, whether in big or small things, is something we see more of this time of year. It’s not hard. It’s actually pleasurable. … Continue reading ‘Tis the season… to lead.

“When you come to a fork in the road, take it!” -Yogi Berra Choices. We make thousands of them daily. Toast or cereal? Coffee or tea? Red or blue? Walk or ride? Some are mundane while others are life-altering. And regardless of their weight, we are advised to make good ones. But what is a … Continue reading The right choice. Don’t settle for less.

Do you have habits? Of course you do. We all do. Maybe it’s brushing your teeth every morning when you get up and every night before bed. Maybe it’s the route you take to work each day or how you grab a cup of coffee at the same spot before going into your office. Habits … Continue reading BOOK REVIEW: Vital Behavior Blueprint by Julie Smith and Lori Ludwig